Repeat after me: Rebound relationships are bad. I think the rebound relationship develops too quickly/intensely because you're still hanging on to the feelings you had when you were with the other guy. Maybe the first guy is best for you, or your new guy. Either way, neither of them are good for you right now and it's hard to develop a mature relationship w/ either of them. It's also hard to be objective. Take some time off for yourself. You may even meet someone better than the first two. Time for yourself is always good.
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