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You're absolutely right, my grades are what's number one. I've since dealt with the problems that made my grades plummet (nothing that was fraternity related) and know that I am more than capable of handling classes, fraternity issues, and my own personal problems. Last fall, I was not.
On a side note, Tom, you should be happy to know that two of the guys who left XYZ are now brothers of LXA and are two of the best guys I know.
Thanks to everyone else for the adivce and well-wishing. Especially the Cardinal and Killarney. You two are only serving to further improve my already high opinion of your organizations. All the Chi-O's and DZs I've met locally have been nothing but the greatest women, nice to know it extends nationally.
Everyone else, keep the advice coming. every opinion I can get is needed and welcome. I'd especially like to know how you guys would feel if you lost a pledge to a situation like mine. So far the only decision I've made is to at least let the two brothers who stood by me know what's going on. Tell them if I come back, it means I'm committed to XYZ heart and soul. If I don't, I just want those two dudes to not hate me.
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