I have known guys have depledged from their fraternities and the next year (some even the next semester) pledged with a new house and realized that that was wear they were supposed to be. I am not going to lie and say that it was all gravy between them and their original houses after that, but they were much better as ABC's than XYZ's and they loved their new brotherhoods. If you aren't happy, don't do it. Don't give up on the Greek system yet, give rush another shot, you may find the brotherhood that you have been missing out on in a different organization. Good luck with whatever you decide, PM me if you want to talk about it! I would love to talk to you more!
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