If you Re-Rush, would you be allowed to "rush" this fraternity again, or is it definatly choose them or rush others? Does your bid still stand??
If you have the option of Re-Rushing ALL the groups including XYZ (your fraternity, XYZ is what we typically use around here), I would try rushing again. This way both you and XYZ have mutual say in whether they and you would like to try things again. And maybe you'll find another fraternity that you fit in with better, and they will be able to overlook the fact that you started out as an XYZ.
I'm in an NPC Soroity, so we have spesifc rules about de-pledging and then rushing again, but from what I understand, the fraternity system is more leiniant on it, and many guys (from reading stories here) started out as an XYZ, but ended up really finding their home with ABC and being excellent brothers there.
Hope I helped some...
