Id say each of us has our own reasons why we joined. Some people join to make friends, to meet boys, to have a sister bond cause they dont have real sisters, some join for philanthropy, we all have our own reasons.
I know I did join because I knew of the sisterhood and I knew of what ADPi did for people. My grandma and 3 aunts as well as other family who were ADPi and I always heard all about it and just really wanted to be a part of something so amazing that they always talked about. I had a bf who I eventually got married to so I could care less about boys at all or fraternity parties. Its sad, but so true lol. I wanted to make new friends and sisters who I would bond with. I wanted to become a part of that lifelong commitment and something that I would cherish all of my life. Sure I went to some parties and I had fun and all that, but to me by far,t he sisterhood was the most important thing for me and it always will be. I dont think everyone feels that way joining, but thats how I was.
I am a sentimental girl and very emotional so I cried during so many of the events because things touched me so much when I rushed. It was amazing. I came in wanting ADPi, but being open to other places, but I feel in love with ADPi a long time ago, when I was a girl, and I feel in love with all those ADPi girls I met the first day. I knew there would never be another sorority Id ever feel that way about.
Tears thinking of how great that journey has been and all thats to come.
No matter what this stupid book does to greek life, ADPi is in my heart forever and this stupid book will never break our sorority or any other book for that matter.