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Originally posted by HotDamnImAPhiMu
I understand that sometimes you're forced to make choices, but really, don't the hard choices come when you're deciding if you want to put a group at #6 or #7 and you know you can only go to 6 parties the next day?
If a girl hasn't listed a group at the top of her list, they're probably not a good match.
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Unless perhaps it's the first day, and the girl is so flustered that they all just sort of run together (I never went through Formal, so I can only guess). Maybe she can't remember whether it was Chi Omega or Alpha Chi Omega where the vibe seemed good but she didn't have enough time to decide for sure.
Or.... if perhaps you just get a bad rusher. Say Suzy PNM has 4 parties on Day 2, and can only go back to 3 tomorrow:
ABC
DEF
GHI
JKL
She loves ABC but doesn't think she'll make their cut for whatever reason. They are first and foremost, and she likes the 3 others equally. But she has to cut one, and JKL's rusher seemed like she didn't have her brain on this morning, though the rest of the girls seemed nice. So she puts down ABC, DEF, GHI and regrets JKL with interest, because she wants to be invited back if she gets cut from ABC.
Turns out.... she does get cut from ABC. Now JKL can invite her back, even though she cut them, because she did so "with interest", right?
(like I said, we never did Formal, so I'm only guessing by all the talk I've read here on GC over the years.)