I am very close with my big sister (was just recently a bridesmaid in her wedding) and then her big sister as well.. but with my little not so much.. Im not even invited to her wedding next weekend.. sometimes family stuff just doesnt work out..
I know we werent always that close, but I always encouraged her to take a little.. get more involved.. just tried to get her to do more stuff.. I always tried to get her to come out with others as well hoping that maybe she would have fun with others in the group..
i tried but we never really clicked even though we did in the beginning.. sometimes if they arent enjoying things on the other side there isnt much you can do.. she always had to hang out with her boyfriend.. which me im not that way at all..
she ended up taking a little however with encouragement and even though she still wasnt that close to either of us.. I actually became really close to my grandlittle and then my great grandlittle.. sometimes family stuff doesnt always work out..
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