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I don't think you should worry about it. When I first pledged it was my big sis and her 1st little sis and now in my senior year our family has 9 people. With almost everyone in the family going to take a lil next semester, so theres the fact that we can double.
I think you just need to try and get close with your little, you don't really have to have anything in common just maybe call her to talk see how her summer is going or if you live in the same town this summer go to lunch. My newest little are not that close but she knows I will always be there for her.
Also maybe talk with her about getting a little if you have recruitment coming up and I knew it always helped with my littles, grandlittles-whatever, if I went shopping with them to help get stuff for big sis revelation or initiation because they might not always know what exactly to get. It also gives you time to hang out.
Hope that helped.
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