If the guy doesn't respond to your e-mail, then definitely his loss. Why in the hell would he not give you his number? And I also don't understand why he would drive so much for a date only to take you to Olive Garden. Why?????? If I'm driving that much, I'm eating somewhere good. If he's a guy w/ simple tastes, fine. He could enjoy those simple tastes a little closer to home. No way in hell would I drive an hour to eat Olive Garden.
It's also tacky to run an errand on a first date. If it were your 3rd, ok. But not the first date. It takes the focus off of you and puts it on some lame collector cars that one can purchase at WalMart.
How on earth did you meet this guy?