Fourteen people?!?! Man, this meet-up is going to rock!! I love the SoCal GCers!!!!!
As for how to find each other....Generally, the first set of people to arrive just stand around out in front of the restaurant for a bit. You have to have a little bit of courage and just look at the other people standing around and say "GC?" Sometimes someone will be wearing their letters or a lavalier; that helps. Trust me, we'll find each other!
.....Kelly