I don't mean to be disagreeable, but guys who are abusers tend to come back to their girlfriends/spouses over and over to have somebody to abuse. Just because somebody keeps coming back, doesn't mean that you are meant to be.
In fact, I've read where relationships tend to fail the 2nd and 3rd times for the very same reason that they failed the 1st. Of course, they're exceptions and I'm glad that yours seems to be one.
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