OTW beat me this time.
It wasn't the "BlackGirl" part of your username I was referring to, it was the Chi Omega part. Oh well, I guess I will have to be more specific from now on.
I'll also be blunt. You can write "I love Chi O" in a notebook 80 kajillion times and wear pajamas in the colors, but don't assume things in public (which this is). It is not proper protocol for ANY group to say or do things that will make others assume you are a member when you are not.