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Originally posted by SSS1365:
Yeah, unfortunately, this IS what happened to me. The guy says he still loves me but can't deal with the distance anymore. Something I just don't quite understand. If he loves me, why would he rather not see me anymore? Can anyone explain this to me?
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That to me sounds like a wimpy excuse. Either that or he's found someone else and wants to pawn the DISTANCE THING off as a reason.
But, I honestly don't know because I've never dated anyone long distance. I know people who have and it is tough. The sacrifice and committment is hard but few do make it through.
But ultimately the only way I can relate to your situation is when I broke up with my previous exboyfriend. I wasn't happy anymore and he wasn't willing to meet me half way on certain things. It's a terribly long story but I loved him dearly and I just knew that he wasn't what I needed and so I broke it off. That was probably the hardest thing I had to do; let the person I loved go. I found it funny that after all the promises he made to me and telling me he wanted to marry me and everything...he could just so easily let me go without a comment; litterally.
But...better things come along and I've learned not to settle.
Good Luck and just know you're the prize...as everyone has pointed out to me.
Hootie