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Originally posted by AlphaFrog
If you knew that they didn't take it serious enough to keep things secret, and/or if they'd already revealed secrets and it's before initiation, if it were an option, I would have them continue their New Member period (sorry that sounds so "Soroity Life" but in the situation where you don't think your NM is serious, it's a good option, if your org allows for it). This way wither the NM learns that this is serious, or they drop (that would be bad, but at least your secrets would be safe!).
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We did exactly that with one girl, and she got it real quick alright.
I'd like to add that she is now a quality sister. I'm very proud of her.
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