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Originally posted by PM_Mama00
Actually funny that you mention all of this. Apparently my school is in the process of hiring its first Greek advisor. And one of the few new advisors will be a hazing person. Pledges will be told that if they feel they were hazed, they can go talk to this advisor. And we've heard that one of the advisors will contact pledges and members who drop, and ask them why they are dropping.
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I really don't think it's any of the advisor's damn business why someone depledges. It could be something personal that was hard enough to share with their would-be sisters or brothers (i.e. my dad lost his job and I'm broke, I'm pregnant, my parents are divorcing and I have to transfer etc) without being grilled by a Greek advisor. And this just sounds like one of those deals where even though there ISN'T hazing, it will be twisted to make it sound like it was.
Now if you have a chapter who every year has several people quit...look into what's going on. And I'm sure when groups report depledges, there's a space on the form to state why. But to subject everyone who quits to a one on one interview, when they are already hurting? That's BS.