orchid2-
Hi! I am the state rush information chairman for Connecticut and the sororities contact me and I get the recommendations for the girls. This is just for my sorority but I am sure each sorority would have a chairman that gathers the needed information for them. Our website lists the chairmen for each state -maybe the others do too and you can have reference letters sent directly to that chairman. With us- it is perfectly acceptable to do that. Good luck! Write me if you need any help!