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Old 06-27-2004, 04:50 PM
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Originally posted by pixell
I have no problem living together while engaged (or before), of course I know this isn't for everyone. I live with my boyfriend and we're *far* from engaged. Both our parents were fine with it (in fact it was his mom's idea)

I think it's a really good idea to live together before marriage because then you get to know a person better and see if you're compatible.

Of course my views might change in a few months, we have *just* moved in together.
It can also make sense for financial reasons. I'm moving in with my girlfriend on August 1st. I start Law School soon. I'll accrue probably a student debt of around 60-70K while in law school. If things didn't work out, she'd owe half if we were to be divorced.

Not really fair.

I know you can take care of that kind of stuff with a pre-nupital, but why bother when you can just put things off a few years?
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