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Originally posted by valkyrie
They do touch on the fact that men marry when it's "time" and I think that actually is very true. A guy can be dating a woman who is absolutely wonderful and just about perfect, but if he doesn't feel that it's time to get married, it's not going to happen. I wish more women understood that -- because a lot of the time it isn't actually about the woman -- it's just not the right time.
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This is what I hate so much about dating at this age (I'm 23)- it kind of seems pointless to look for anything more than a good time, since the type of guys I'm around wouldn't think about getting serious until they're done with grad school and reasonably established (as in, very late 20s or early 30s probably). They've just decided that that will be the age to settle down, and in the mean time it's not really about the girl or their relationship with her, if it's just not the right time.
Clearly at 23 I'm way too young to get married any time soon, but I feel like I want more than casual dating (which I just spent 4 long years doing during college).