Perps can be flattering or not!
If they are perps and act like children well take it from there!
What is sad, these maybe wantabes can harm a Soroity/ Fraternity by their actions.
I lost my Billfold one time, I was very concerned about 3 things, D L, S S and LXA Card.
I called International and told them the story, and got one in the mail very soon. Then got on phone with Credit Cards!
I guess they are trying to be part of and arent yet. Just set them straight in a nice way and maybe they will understand!
Yes, I was concerned about My LXA Card, I put to much work into it not to have one. And damn proud to carry it, I also have a back up just in case!
Never met a perp proclaiming to be a LXA as the first thing is throw the grip on him.
Still remember it and damn proud! Oh to just ah a say, I forgot it as had not had to use it for many years and could not get into Ritual without it! Thank goodness they all new me!