Ok, I did pledge my legacy sorority. What was even harder for me was the fact that I went to my mom's school as well and she was president of zta while she was there (she also served in MANY other offices...).
I thought, at first, I'm only being invited back because I'm a (double) legacy. And the reason I thought this was because I got dropped by the other 5 organizations just after the 1st round. ZTA was my only choice from the beginning, but I too felt that the only reason I was there was because I'm a legacy.
SO NOT TRUE! I learned the next year how wrong I was. We dropped a legacy after the 2nd round. We would have dropped her after the 1st round had she not been a legacy, but we respect the rule to invite them back again. We did, we tried really hard, but in the end, she was MUCH happier in another house.
You'll find the house that's best for you, whether it's the one you're a legacy to or not. Good luck with everything and feel free to PM me any time.
