[honeychile]

nokittyno, another avenue you might want to explore is to ask if your school has "free juniors and seniors". That means that being a junior or senior won't count in quota, and makes you MUCH more likely to be bid.

And don't limit yourself! I was a legacy to another sorority, but fell in love with Alpha Delta Pi the first day of Recruitment! You just never know who or what you'll find. You might want to read up on some of the Rush Threads in the Rush Forum, just to see what happens - and don't forget, what works at College A may be completely gauche at College B!!

If you want to post a Rush Thread on that forum, you'll find that you'll have a lot of "cheerleaders" - sorority women who will cheer you as you go through the different parties. Just don't feel pressured to do so.

Good luck, and may you get the bid of your choice!