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This is weird because I am going through this right now--
My boyfriend and I broke up about 1.5 months ago(his decision but we both saw it coming) and decided to stay friends and its had its major ups and downs. It went really well for the first week but I have decided in the last few weeks its more trouble than its worth. We still talked every day and knew where each other was and it started to wear on me that if he still wanted to know what I was doing and wanted to talk to me, and still cared about me, why didn't he still want to be my boyfriend?
We decided on Monday to not talk for awhile, because we know we aren't getting back together and we both need to move on and remaining close friends is holding us back from that. I know if I needed him, he would be there for me in heartbeat, but I also know that I can't rely on that.
So, I don't think you should swear to NEVER speak again but I also think breaking up is breaking up and sometimes when you drag it on, it hurts more than it would if you just moved on. I know my heart has been hurting for at least a month now and I wish I had gotten the chance to make a clean break.
Just my .02 cents!
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