At my chapter, I instituted a "Julie Must Approve Your Initiation Dress" rule. They bring everything over to the house for my approval and I give them treats. Somedays... it's all about the "carrot and stick" approach with my girls.
A funny thing happened after a while though, now the collegians are tougher than I am about what's appropriate! I actually heard the New Member Coordinator give a 5 minute talk about how it was tacky (and therefore beneath an Alpha Gam) to wear open toed shoes with pantyhose.
Wonder what I can do to get them to write better reports???