Quote:
First, your best friend told you about pledging????????
|
I said she "called it pledging"....I didn't say I had never heard of it before then.
Furthermore, I was only letting you know that not all members of NPHC groups are so secretive. At my school it was a very common practice for everyone to know who was on line. Not b/c someone was "breaking the rules" of pledgeship but b/c we were such a small school and everyone knew everyone.
She never gave me details if that is what you are afraid of. I just remember before her actual Initiation (for lack of a better word) it was common for people to say "I'm going this" Or "I'm gonna go that." It's also common for girls that are already members to come to people and say "You should be a..." or "I think you would be a good..." I never knew it was supposed to be a secret thing until I started to read these posts on GC.