Has anyone here been lavaliered or pinned? What do you do with it if you break up? I know a pin - you would give back to the guy but what about a lavalier - do you give that back too?

PS- FYI- I did not give mine back and the ex was not mad about it or even asked for it back. I still have the lavalier- I think it will be a neat thing to show my son or daughter some day if they go greek.