Not knowing your fraternity, I will have to just base it off of mine.

We take an oath...we enter into a bond. The words and ideals expressed in that oath are very important.

Now, are you going to say that you are going to treat someone as a complete equal if he took that oath in jest or didn't mean the things he said when you took them seriously?

Everyone has their faults, and I acknowledge that. However, it is totally different when someone poorly treats the things you hold sacred. If he is a fraternal brother...you call him on it. If he keeps it up, obviously some course of action would be taken.

It isn't as simple as saying that you are either with him "Right or Wrong" or that you aren't.