hey there! When I was pledging our new member ed. had us keep a journal of interviews with memebers from the house. We had to have a certain number of actives "interviewed" so to speak before iniation. I thought it was kinda a drag when I had to do it but looking back it forced me to hang out at the house more when I was still a little shy and settling in, which helped me to become more comfortable a lot faster. The thing was we weren't allowed to ask the same ole' "what's your major?" type questions. I asked stuff what is your fav late night snack after you've been out all night... random stuff really got the convos going and I learned a lot about my future sisters. Just an idea!
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DeeGee268
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