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Originally posted by James
If you need a large amount of counseling . . you might want to rethink mariage with that person 
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True on some levels. Yet, there are just some people who have a marital tunnel vision that can possibly be helped when some of the blindfolds have been removed.
A lot of people go right from their childhood home to college to a marriage, and since they never spent time learning how to truly live on their own, lack the skills needed to maintain a peaceful marriage.
The best example I can think of right now is the number of people I've talked to who don't know that owning a house means paying a sewage bill! It's a little thing, but it can cause big troubles.