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				Originally posted by James  
Where that is the case, do you advocate people stay in the marriage to preserve the friendship or economic union and seek exciting sexual relations outside the marriage? 
			
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 No, just because they fell out of the sexual love doesn't mean they should go outside of the marriage to get it.  I believe in marriage and vows, and if the only thing wrong with a particular union is that one doesn't feel the way that he/she felt in the beginning about their sexual relationship...then tough.  Those people should look to other things in their marriage to make them happy.  I don't think that is a reason to justify divorce.