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Originally posted by twhrider13
You have a good point about what he wants. The answer is, I don't know, because since he stopped his meds, he's also stopped communicating with me. I do my best to do what I *think* he needs/wants, but I'm in no way a mind reader. I guess a lot of the blame can fall to me as well, because I don't talk to him like I should, mostly because almost anything can set him off at any time. When things are ok, I try to let well enough alone. And, yes, I do know how bad that philosophy is for a relationship!  I just don't really know what to do at this point. 
And thanks for all the advice up to this point, everyone! 
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Just a reminder *AGAIN* that if he hasn't taken his meds in sometime there is not much of a point in trying to figure out what he wants because his mind is definately all jumbled up right now. Try to work with him and his support systems to get him treatment Then stick to it. He is going to need people who are firm with him right now and care about him.