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Originally posted by James
If this person was not bi-polar and acted this way, what would you do? Stay or leave?
Thats your answer.
Also, you wrote a lot about he doesn't meet your needs for attention and nurturing, but how are you meeting his needs?
Do you know what his needs are? Other than being lectured about what he doesn't want to do?
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You have a good point about what he wants. The answer is, I don't know, because since he stopped his meds, he's also stopped communicating with me. I do my best to do what I *think* he needs/wants, but I'm in no way a mind reader. I guess a lot of the blame can fall to me as well, because I don't talk to him like I should, mostly because almost anything can set him off at any time. When things are ok, I try to let well enough alone. And, yes, I do know how bad that philosophy is for a relationship!
I just don't really know
what to do at this point.
And thanks for all the advice up to this point, everyone!
