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Old 06-19-2004, 11:28 AM
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Originally posted by valkyrie
Over time, you may not feel the same way about your spouse as you did at first. You may not feel sexually attracted to him/her any more. I don't think there is any amount of "work" or "counseling" or anything in the world that can make you sexually attracted to someone, or that can make you have feelings for someone that you no longer have. I also don't think you're doing any favors by staying with someone for whom you don't have strong feelings any more -- I would never, ever want someone to be with me even if he's not into me just because he made a vow.
IMO, this is the worst reason people use to justify a divorce. If the only reason someone cares about his/her spouse is sexual attraction, then that person had issues to begin with.
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