I think that it is very easy for people to judge when they have not been in a serious relationship or married. People tend to idealize marriage, but sometimes reality is ugly.
Marriages end in two ways-death or divorce. Divorce seems preferable to me. Why spend your life being unhappy?
Many religions offer counseling prior to marriage as a way to test compatibility. The course points out potential problems couples might have in their lives together and how to address them. They teach communication techniques and conflict resolution. This counseling is very successful.
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