Have faith in your sisters to help you out when you're having difficulties with a PNM. You may be nervous but know that your sisters, who have already gone through recruitment on 'this side', will help you out. When you're talking to a PNM, feel free to go off on tangents - that's usually where the best and most comfortable conversations come from and know how to bring it back somehow to something sorority related. Be able to poke fun at yourself because laughter eases nervousness and the PNM will also note that you're not a sorority nazi so she'll open up to you. That's all I've got for now. More than anything, just be comfortable and confident in yourself and in your sisters and that'll show through when you're recruiting the PNMs.
|