I've never met her.... or heard anything about her, so I have no idea what she thinks of me. The whole thing seems kind of wierd, really... a lot of people I've talked to didn't even know he was getting married.

For all I know, she couldn't care less about me being there, and that would be awesome, because I'd love to go. But on the same token, she could be very against it, and like I said... I'd never know since he wouldn't say anything.

I'm leaning towards not going.... I'm going to email him back and lay out my concerns again and see what he says. It will probably be best if I can talk to him on the phone about it, because I'll get an idea from his tone of voice what the real situation is. But I'm curious what some of you would do in this circumstance.