See, that's what I'm concerned about.... he's the kind of guy that, even if she does say she's uncomfortable, he won't tell me that because he wants me to come. (one of the many reasons we are not together anymore, LOL)

Yeah, I'm not nearly as concerned about inviting him to ours as I am about going to his. I know Al (my fiancee) isn't fazed by it (heck, one of my ex-boyfriends is standing up for us!) but I don't know anything about this girl.