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Originally posted by dzsaigirl
Well, it is exactly what I thought it would be. As long as you marry someone good, and truly think about what you are doing with your head and not just your heart, marriage can be relatively easy and surprise-free.
I did think with my head, thank you very much...
My husband and I have no major problems. I knew exactly the type of man he is, and I totally accepted that.
I thought this too, or else I wouldn't have married.
I thought long and hard about getting married to him before I did. And I am extremely happy.
I, too, thought long and hard. And I was also extremely happy until he dropped the bomb.
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I think your EX has some issues that go way beyond anybody's understanding... Even yours...
He may be having a "sexual crises" if you know what I mean... Because if he said he only wants to do his work and shit... I can tell you that is a bunch of CRAP!!!
I don't think he is cheating per se... I think it is who he wants to mess around with... And it don't sound like someone with an XX chromosomal spread... It may not even be human...
I just think once you get through all of this HAYLE, and reflect, you'd probably discover that you are better off...
And now here is your chance to do ALL that you ever dreamed of in your life... Go to grad school and get that degree...
Live in another country and experience life--with Paolo or Sergio--or whatever you want his name to be--and make sure he's sexy and cannot speak English that well...
And you are still young enuf--and cute enuf--I know you don't have a feeling right now and your numb... But take that little money your EX is SUPPOSE to give you and get outta town fast!!!
And gwirlfriend--live it up!!!