[dzsaigirl]

Well, it is exactly what I thought it would be. As long as you marry someone good, and truly think about what you are doing with your head and not just your heart, marriage can be relatively easy and surprise-free.

I did think with my head, thank you very much...

My husband and I have no major problems. I knew exactly the type of man he is, and I totally accepted that.

I thought this too, or else I wouldn't have married.

I thought long and hard about getting married to him before I did. And I am extremely happy.

I, too, thought long and hard. And I was also extremely happy until he dropped the bomb.