[AKA_Monet]

For those of you "youngins" that have ideas about folks being married, single or whatever:

Marriage is NEVER what you think it is until you are married...

And if your situation winds up in divorce for whatever reason, then you can NEVER imagine what will happen after the fact...

IMHO, what I wanted for me, I also wanted it for the man. It was what I could deal with, it was what I was capable of handling. I had an education, 2 advanced degrees and I was working hard. I would expect my significant other has acheived similarly to me, or better.

Personally, that I why I think that folks outta marry in their 30's opposed to their 20's... Simply because in your 20's everything in life is still rather unstable. Feelings and emotions are still someone skewed. If your 30-something and still have skewing, folks really are wondering what the FCUK is your problem... I.E. livin' in your mom's house at 35... Or still relyin' on your parents for "party money"...


DZai--

I am truly sorry for your situation. I hope that when you meet the man truly worthy of your love that if you choose to marry him, he will give attempt to fulfill all your hopes and dreams...