[ADPiShannan]

What about abuse? Or "irreconcilable differences" (ie, he works all the time and ignores you, drinks too much, sexual incompatibility, psychological problems, what have you)?

Ok I wasnt thinking of all the reasons to get divorced when I replied so yes those too.

I just dont think people should just go out and divorce and divorce just cause. I know several people who got divorces cause they just didnt want to deal with the other person anymore or made a mistake and shouldnt have gotten married. To me marriage is a very sacred thing not to be taken lightly so I say dont get married if you arent sure you want that for life. If horrible things happen, then yes a divorce is a good thing to get.

My uncles wife decided after 9 years she just wanted to be alone and didnt want to be married. This is happening now. She doesnt have a bf or has cheated she just doesnt want to be married anymore. He is a mess. So those kinds of things upset me.