[exlurker]

Wildcatt,

After rereading your original post, may I suggest that if you are wondering -- even slightly -- whether someone might "look down" on you for something you're wearing at KSU recruitment --- choose something different!

This really doesn't have to do with what the sorority members might or might not think. It's a matter of you feeling good and comfortable so that you can relax and shine.

Put it this way -- rush can be a little stressful or even overwhelming sometimes. You'll be part of a bunch of around 550-600 women going through. Besides meeting new people, you may have to deal with brutal Kansas August heat -- if it's 103 in the shade and you're walking in a group from, say, Gamma Phi Beta to Pi Beta Phi to Alpha Chi Omega to Sigma Kappa, those couple or three blocks can seem like a looooong way. On top of everything else, do you need to be wondering in the back of your mind, "is this skirt all right?"

Listen to your feelings and choose what you can feel comfortable and confident with. Again, best wishes.