Hey!
I'm glad to see you're so enthusiastic about AEPhi. Do check out our national website... parts of it are under construction, but there's still a lot of useful info. I'm pretty sure the Binghamton chapter doesn't have its own website.
As AlphaFrog said, go into recruitment with an open mind. If you participate in formal recruitment, you'll have the chance to meet members of all the NPC sororities represented at Binghamton - take advantage of it.
Also, stop by the rush forum here on GreekChat. There's a lot of useful information about recruitment in general, plus you can start your very own recruitment thread (we're addicts, lol)
Good luck!