You know your sorority sounds just like mine, I wonder if we are in the same one? The way that I usually deal with this issue is to just stay out of it. I hear all the bad things, and I let it ride itself out. At our meetings we have a time called open forum, which we can speak what is onour minds. If you have anything like that maybe the best thing would be to read this letter that you have written and tell them how you feel, then it is not confronting one singled out person, but the group, and then challenge the group to keep this in mind next time the open their mouths. One of our most trusted values, is "to never speak evil of a sisters goog name, or that of her family." remind them of the heartache that their behaviour enstills.
Kirsten
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