I know in my chapter we have what we call "Chi-O Courtesy". Basically what that means is if I dated a guy, showed interest in a guy (and that interest was expressed to a sister), he's off limits to my sisters. They have to ask permission from me to date him. It's just a nice thing to do, because there would be nothing more uncomfortable than seeing an exboyfriend with a sister at, for example, formal! Maybe this is a new policy your chapter can adopt. Believe me, it helps!
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