I'm not going to say "mad". You know how it is when are no longer...."here". You know you just seem to "grow apart". We are associates, but it "aint what it used to be". I would not feel comfortable having someone as a BM if they have not had some "part" in my relationship. I would want those ladies to know my future hubby via interaction...going out together, etc.
Back in 1990 while a Freshman in college, I had 13 BM. It's now 2004 and I GUESS I have like 5 or 6. But, there are friends I have that I have met in the last 3-5 years that I would like to "stand up" for me that are not included in that 5 or 6.
I'm thinking WHEN (speak it into existence
) I get married, I'm going off and whoever can afford the trip will be my BM...therefore, NO DRAMA!
Who knows what's going to happen then?
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