I feel you Greek
A similar situation happened to me a few weeks ago. This girl I was trying to date in college(who was from my hometown) saw me the other day and came out and said.." I don't know why I didn't date you in college" (even though I wanted to say it might have had something to do with you wanting those sorry ni@@as that treated you like crap) BUT I said I didn't either and tried to keep it moving.. I'll admit was a little bitter(lol)...but she continued to ask me about my job and if I was dating anyone. I told her I was talking with someone and kind of ended the conversation at that. I was telling one of my good friends about it and she said I was bitter, but I really didn't care..... so now a girl I use to like has realized I could be a potential mate now I'm suppose to be happy..SORRY.. not gon be able to do it..Much like you I don't carry myself any differently now than I did in college.
Do You but I say don't accept it