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My last serious relationship was with a guy that was initially in the Navy. While it was just my experience, and relationships are obviously different for everyone and you need to make your own choices, I feel that the main reason our relationship didn't work out was because of his being away a lot so much in the beginning cuz of the military that we didn't get to know each other and we got caught up in the whole romanticness of it all. When things ended I honestly took this the hardest of any break up I have ever encountered. I feel that the reason I felt this way was because I put so much into the relationship while he was away and felt that if we were able to get through the seperation, we could get through anything. That was not the case though. I also know a lot of military people and they are all divorced. They all got married young and now are divorced and even some of them have kids. It is a lot to take on but if you are ready to deal with that I say go for it.
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