[PM_Mama00]

Dee that's awesome that you got out of that alright.

The guy that I had just been talking to for two months had just gotten out of a 7 year relationship with his ex fiance and mother of his son. He says he only hit her twice, but I'm wondering if it was more. He told me that she would throw things at him, and it all stopped once he accidentally broke her jaw. My friends told me that I'm stupid to talk to him and if he hit once he'll hit again. He's never done anything physical to me, but he is mean and degrading of women. His thoughts are that since his fiance hurt him, all women are evil and should be treated like dirt. One night he was being mean, I told him sometimes I would just rather him hit me (of course I wasn't being serious). He just shockingly looked at me and couldn't believe I said that and said he'd never touch a women ever again because of how bad he felt when he hurt his ex.

The emotional abuse sucks. Guys being blatantly mean sucks. And I can see how a girl can get sucked into a relationship like this. Like what Honechile said about how it starts out with little things. He would make mean comments when I'd say the littlest thing wrong, and after formal I bought orange juice instead of his cranberry juice, and the whole night he kept blaming me for him nto feeling good and just bein so mean that I didn't know what to do. Am i still talking to him? Yeah. But slowly getting over him. I've gotten to the point where I can't take his mean-ness anymore, and I'm glad we're not together cuz I can see it getting worse.

James I think you are pretty ignorant for saying that a woman should just get out. I wasn't even really dating Paul, and it's hard to let go. I can't even imagine what's it's like for someone like Dee or other women to try to get out.