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You are suffering from Return of the Ex's, which is quite common but can be difficult to treat. If you are of the mindset that it's pointless to backtrack wear your bitter tag with pride (I have with several folks). If it's someone that you think the relationship might stand a chance test the waters but if it isn't going anywhere nip it in the bud before they frustrate your behind. People that have good energy around them and are generally good people are often overlooked when we are younger because folks have this certain image in mind for who they should be with. I was often told I was the kind of girl "you marry" and since they weren't ready to get married we ended things. Without fail at least three of them materialize every year, often at the same time, and say lets give it another try. And we always end up having the same conversation about why it's pointless to go back. I can maintain friendships but we ain't getting back together. But that depends on the person cause some folks won't give up. It's better just to end it if they can't be civil.
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