I'll pitch in my 2 cents too.
I have honestly NEVER known an SAI sister I did not love. There's something about the bond we all share--what we all know--just that common "understanding" I guess, that makes it so special to me to meet other sisters. When I became a sister (like all Greeks), I made a promise of friendship to all members. NOT all Epsilon Gamma sisters; ALL SAIs, everywhere. That's not a vow I take lightly. Afterall, our founders started our org because they felt a need for a group that would promote "friendly and unselfish relations among women in the music profession." I just feel that thinking badly of another sister would be going against the entire reason we came into existance.